Hey Peeps! It’s been almost a year that I had written about two girls being friends. I loved the immense response I had got from my ” Yes, Girls can be friends too!“. You have cemented my feelings on the advantages of having a true friend.
I am really thankful to God for all the good and true friends I have got in life. There have been numerous times when my friends have taught me things which life missed out.
Let us briskly talk about the small things only a true friend can do for you:
Words with friends
All of us go through ups and downs in our lives. At times we don’t even know what we want, where are we going and are we doing it right?
Sometimes we are surrounded by people and still feel lonely. Whether you are from Joint family or nuclear, no one can replace the words
with friends. A true friend understands you so well that when you are with her/him, you share the burden. I can talk to my best friend for hours together.
Sometimes we talk sense, sometimes old jokes and sometimes it’s bitching too. Ever and again, I feel what would I be without a true friend in my life?
I am a very expressive person still I am not able to share my sorrows with everyone. A person who knows how to spread happiness around is the most lonely person in this world and I feel I am one among them.
I am so glad I have a few friends in my life who understand me so well and embalm my pain when I need them.
Shopping Together- Like a package deal
I have been listening to the fact that girls don’t want to share where do they shop from, they can’t see other girls/women wearing same or similar clothes.
Well, as far as I know, it doesn’t hold true in my life. We go together for shopping and not kidding, we end up buying almost the same stuff. I just love when we do twinning. We both are wearing Tops by Zara that we shopped together. And we have at least 10-15 outfits which we can twin.
Sharing Sales details
We girls are famous for showing off and other fussy stuff. But, we secretly share with each other that this H& M shoes I am wearing are from the end of season sale. Go for it before the sale ends.
On the same wavelength
I and my best friends are always on the same page. Not only this we are so used to each other that we believe in the same things. At times we use the same word or phrases that might sound funny and weird at the same time.
The insider jokes
We hold so many secrets and have bitched together that we have endless insider jokes that no one can understand. Only a true friend get it when you don’t even move your eyes. That T secret can be understood by only 2 people.
Fight over stupid things
Yes, we are normal people and people do have argumets. We have had silly altercations now and then as well. Believe me over the silly stuff such as not answering a call. But we have matured and gotten over any negative feelings. It’s just not worth it to rubbish something as beautiful as we have with each other.
Agreeing to disagree
Yes, I have mentioned earlier about both of us being on the same wavelength. However, we are not clones of each other. On the contrary, both of us are equally strong personalities with individual likes and dislikes. We have differed in, let’s say ordering food at a restaurant or our choice of movies and music.
Don’t you think this is perfectly normal? Again, over time, as we have matured, we have learnt to respect each other’s choices and to disagree amicably. Isn’t this the crux of any long-lasting human relationship?
Did it sound like your story with your friend too? Yes, we are not so different after all from the people around us.
Do comment in the section below with your story or anecdotes.
Stay happy and prosper!